Not sure how one should deal with doubts. At times, doubts are so menacing they themselves turn out to be the reason of failure. An answer that oscillates every few hours, or a day at most, is easily the least trustworthy one. Nevertheless, shouldn't there be a period of pondering before certainty is attained? Perhaps doubts are quintessential in this period of pondering. Meanwhile, everybody would love to have the ball in his/her court, not the opposite.

So, to love or not to love? Or rather--whose court is the ball in?