'tangle'

My coping mechanism may vary over time, but basically it's to get the tangle out of my system, be it blogging, talking about it, crying it out, drinking it away--whatever works. And I love the fact that despite the many people who are aware of the presence of the tangle, nobody fully and thoroughly understands the tangle itself. The fact that I am the only one who understands the 'tangle' inside out makes it special, and somewhat beautiful. :)